Introduce CLI option for input buffer size

[stefanobaghino-da]

Also improves CLI help text for other back-pressure related options.

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[Sandbox] Allow to configure --input-buffer-size, which allows to tune the number of commands waiting to be submitted before the Sandbox applies back-pressure, run daml sandbox --help for more info.
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