fix(server): Increase common abstraction usage

[dranikpg]

Un-invent re-invented wheels 😄

Now that I introduced some more abstractions in my last PRs, we can use them in other places as well

[romange]

I have been using absl::Status for a long time https://github.com/abseil/abseil-cpp/blob/master/absl/status/status.h
but with helio and dragonfly I decided to go with the standard. But it seems passing a custom message is a valid use-case and we can not get away from it.