If the error message for a field starts with an !, use it (without th…

…e !) instead of the result

from the remote call.

jquery.validate.js

@@ -1044,7 +1044,13 @@ $.extend($.validator, {
 						validator.showErrors();
 					} else {
 						var errors = {};
-						var message = response || validator.defaultMessage( element, "remote" );
+            var defaultMessage = validator.defaultMessage( element, "remote" );
+
+            if (/^!/.match(defaultMessage)) {
+              response = defaultMessage.replace(/^!/, "")  
+            }
+
+						var message = response || defaultMessage;
 						errors[element.name] = previous.message = $.isFunction(message) ? message(value) : message;
 						validator.invalid[element.name] = true;
 						validator.showErrors(errors);