clang-format and clang-tidy scripts: More robust algorithm to find correct executable

[clydebarrow]

What does this implement/fix?

The scripts script/clang-format and script/clang-tidy don't work well on a Mac with executables installed by
homebrew. This PR checks for either the plain executable name that reports the correct version or a versioned name,

Types of changes

• Bugfix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to not work as expected)
• Other

Related issue or feature (if applicable): fixes

Pull request in esphome-docs with documentation (if applicable): esphome/esphome-docs#

Test Environment

• ESP32
• ESP32 IDF
• ESP8266
• RP2040
• BK72xx
• RTL87xx

Example entry for config.yaml:

# Example config.yaml

Checklist:

• The code change is tested and works locally.
• Tests have been added to verify that the new code works (under tests/ folder).

If user exposed functionality or configuration variables are added/changed:

• Documentation added/updated in esphome-docs.

[bdraco]

Looks good. One remaining comment and I think its good to go 👍

[bdraco]

Looks good. Will test shortly

[kbx81]

Tested on my M1 MacBook and confirmed working as expected.

Thanks @clydebarrow for working on this and @bdraco for your reviews & input! 🍻