[sqlite] bump sqlite to 3.45.3 and enable bytecodevtab

[Kudo]

Why

since sqlite3.podspec 3.45.3+1 has the sqlite3/bytecodevtab subspec support. we can now enable SQLITE_ENABLE_BYTECODE_VTAB for all sqlite libs

How

• bump sqlite to 3.45.3
• enable bytecodevtab for sqlite

Test Plan

launch expo-go/bare-expo and call the function to check whether {"compile_options": "ENABLE_BYTECODE_VTAB"} is existed

async function loadBuildFlagsAsync() {
  const db = await SQLite.openDatabaseAsync('test.db');
  const result = await db.getAllAsync<any>('PRAGMA compile_options');
  console.log('SQLite compile options:', result);
}

Checklist

• Documentation is up to date to reflect these changes (eg: https://docs.expo.dev and README.md).
• Conforms with the Documentation Writing Style Guide
• This diff will work correctly for npx expo prebuild & EAS Build (eg: updated a module plugin).

[expo-bot]

The Pull Request introduced fingerprint changes against the base commit: eb59156

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[Kudo]

i'm go ahead to merge this beforehand for sdk 51 to include the feature. feel free to comment if there's anything from post-review.

[alanjhughes]

Sorry for the delay @Kudo looks good 👍