Arrow: Update arrow to v16

[ryantxu]

What this PR does / why we need it:

This PR updates the arrow library (and parquet support) to the latest v16 release. v16 has improved parquet support (now with full metadata)

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[marefr]

If the binary format is compatible LGTM, but would be good with some input from @grafana/data-plane-wg since they own the data package

[ryantxu]

ugg -- the dependency in https://github.com/scottlepp/go-duck/blob/main/go.mod#L8 -- make our deployment here more difficult. So this may take a while 🤔