fix: no web listen address or systemd socket flag specified and update deps

[solarhell]

with the origin code, if i run the project, log says

ts=2023-12-14T03:12:33.160907Z caller=level.go:71 level=debug collector=vsphere msg=describe
ts=2023-12-14T03:12:33.161083Z caller=level.go:71 level=debug msg="starting the server"
ts=2023-12-14T03:12:33.161089Z caller=level.go:71 level=debug msg="server stopped"
ts=2023-12-14T03:12:33.161092Z caller=level.go:71 level=error msg="error running exporter" err="no web listen address or systemd socket flag specified"

my command is ./vmware_exporter -web.listen-address :9237