Backport of NET-4240 - Snapshots are failing on Windows into release/…

…1.16.x (#18356)

* backport of commit 7f0a3db

* backport of commit ea350bf

* fix go mod tidy

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Co-authored-by: absolutelightning <ashesh.vidyut@hashicorp.com>
Co-authored-by: Ashesh Vidyut <134911583+absolutelightning@users.noreply.github.com>

.changelog/18302.txt

@@ -0,0 +1,4 @@
+```release-note:bug
+snapshot: fix access denied and handle is invalid when we call snapshot save on windows - skip sync() for folders in windows in
+https://github.com/rboyer/safeio/pull/3
+```

go.mod

@@ -91,7 +91,7 @@ require (
 	github.com/patrickmn/go-cache v2.1.0+incompatible
 	github.com/pkg/errors v0.9.1
 	github.com/prometheus/client_golang v1.14.0
-	github.com/rboyer/safeio v0.2.1
+	github.com/rboyer/safeio v0.2.3
 	github.com/ryanuber/columnize v2.1.2+incompatible
 	github.com/shirou/gopsutil/v3 v3.22.8
 	github.com/stretchr/testify v1.8.3

go.sum

@@ -817,8 +817,8 @@ github.com/prometheus/procfs v0.0.8/go.mod h1:7Qr8sr6344vo1JqZ6HhLceV9o3AJ1Ff+Gx
 github.com/prometheus/procfs v0.8.0 h1:ODq8ZFEaYeCaZOJlZZdJA2AbQR98dSHSM1KW/You5mo=
 github.com/prometheus/procfs v0.8.0/go.mod h1:z7EfXMXOkbkqb9IINtpCn86r/to3BnA0uaxHdg830/4=
 github.com/prometheus/tsdb v0.7.1/go.mod h1:qhTCs0VvXwvX/y3TZrWD7rabWM+ijKTux40TwIPHuXU=
-github.com/rboyer/safeio v0.2.1 h1:05xhhdRNAdS3apYm7JRjOqngf4xruaW959jmRxGDuSU=
-github.com/rboyer/safeio v0.2.1/go.mod h1:Cq/cEPK+YXFn622lsQ0K4KsPZSPtaptHHEldsy7Fmig=
+github.com/rboyer/safeio v0.2.3 h1:gUybicx1kp8nuM4vO0GA5xTBX58/OBd8MQuErBfDxP8=
+github.com/rboyer/safeio v0.2.3/go.mod h1:d7RMmt7utQBJZ4B7f0H/cU/EdZibQAU1Y8NWepK2dS8=
 github.com/renier/xmlrpc v0.0.0-20170708154548-ce4a1a486c03 h1:Wdi9nwnhFNAlseAOekn6B5G/+GMtks9UKbvRU/CMM/o=
 github.com/renier/xmlrpc v0.0.0-20170708154548-ce4a1a486c03/go.mod h1:gRAiPF5C5Nd0eyyRdqIu9qTiFSoZzpTq727b5B8fkkU=
 github.com/rivo/uniseg v0.2.0 h1:S1pD9weZBuJdFmowNwbpi7BJ8TNftyUImj/0WQi72jY=