Remove google_project_service from state if not found

[modular-magician]

Fixes #9841

This PR reverses the change introduced in the sdkv2 upgrade: https://github.com/hashicorp/terraform-provider-google/blame/d1014fe3b47d377db9a6eee9cfa9cbb0412c18e2/google/resource_google_project_service.go#L190

If a service was disabled outside of TF, the previous change showed a permanent error and would not let users re-enable the service until it was removed from state and added back to the config.

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serviceusage: fixed an issue in `google_project_service` where users could not reenable services that were disabled outside of Terraform.

Derived from GoogleCloudPlatform/magic-modules#5184

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