Don't fire quorum events until quorum is met for the first time

[mdogan]

Note: Removed data-structure quorum-listeners tests. Quorum events
are not bound to a specific data-structure.

Fixes #17038

3.12.z: #17082

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[ERROR] Failures: 
[ERROR]   CPMemberAutoRemoveTest.when_missingCPNodeJoins_then_itIsNotAutomaticallyRemoved:108->HazelcastTestSupport.assertTrueEventually:1420->HazelcastTestSupport.assertTrueEventually:1318 
Expected: an empty collection
     but: <[CPMember{uuid=1eb9a9c2-9c9f-4547-a711-a86f3d7e38b0, address=[127.0.0.1]:5701}, CPMember{uuid=3a1a002f-1f30-46bb-9498-27a43ba9aacb, address=[127.0.0.1]:5702}]>
[ERROR] Errors: 
[ERROR]   CPMemberAddRemoveTest.when_newCPMemberIsAddedToTheMetadataGroupAfterRestartAndSnapshot_newMemberInstallsSnapshot ? Execution
[INFO] 
[ERROR] Tests run: 14869, Failures: 1, Errors: 1, Skipped: 648
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[ERROR] There are test failures.

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[ERROR]   CPMemberAutoRemoveTest.when_missingCPNodeJoins_then_itIsNotAutomaticallyRemoved:108->HazelcastTestSupport.assertTrueEventually:1420->HazelcastTestSupport.assertTrueEventually:1318 
Expected: an empty collection
     but: <[CPMember{uuid=c2e3228b-ecca-4583-8756-494994fa8772, address=[127.0.0.1]:5702}, CPMember{uuid=789382e1-9e8f-4219-9c61-6a720bbc605d, address=[127.0.0.1]:5701}]>
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[ERROR]   CPMemberAddRemoveTest.when_newCPMemberIsAddedToTheMetadataGroupAfterRestart_newMemberCommitsMetadataGroupLogEntries ? Execution
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[ERROR] Tests run: 14869, Failures: 1, Errors: 1, Skipped: 648
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[mdogan]

Failures in the last two runs, CPMemberAutoRemoveTest and CPMemberAddRemoveTest, are not related to this PR. I checked and tested on 3.12.z branch and they are not failing.