Fail when user tries run custom config flow

[balloob]

Description:

Fail with a useful message when a user tries to start a config flow from a custom integration. This will help Life360 users understand why the new config flow is not working.

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[andrewsayre]

This does effectively stop someone from running a modified version of a built-in integration that is config flow only. I also updated the title, as it's not a warning, it's a failure. :)

[balloob]

The longterm fix will be to allow custom integrations to add config flows. It means we need to scan all custom integrations at startup etc.

[elupus]

Well previously it was enough to extend the FLOWS variable in asymc_setup, which I admit was really a hack, but why not just require a call from async_setup in a custom component to register the flow?