Delay peersharing

[karknu]

Description

Delay peer sharing for newly established peers for 5 minutes. The 5 minute gives the new peer plenty of time to prove itself useful, or violate the protocol and be disconnected.
This change also fixes a startup problem where, when the node starts it could end up asking the first peer it manages to connect to for 100 peers.

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[coot]

These changes were merged in #4739.