Have a way to declare, visualize, and prevent module dependencies

[BigLep]

Done Criteria

Maintainers are equipped with the tooling to prevent all the modules from depending on each other. (Please correct) @BigLep assumes the way to do this is to have:

1. a way to declare module dependencies
2. visualize them
3. enforce that certain modules aren't depended on

Why Important

This is critical for hitting Boxo's modularity goals. Just because they live together and version together doesn’t mean all depend on each other

Notes

There was discussion about this in ipfs/kubo#8543 but I'm sure how relevant it is anymore.