Release v1.28.2

What's Changed

Automated cherry pick of #16112: check kops cluster name when filtering instances in by @hakman in #16114
Automated cherry pick of #16110: Update kube-router to v1.6.0 by @hakman in #16116
Automated cherry pick of #16113: Replace * in IAM tags when IRSA namespace has wildcard by @hakman in #16118
Automated cherry pick of #16163: Upgrade Karpenter to v0.31.3 by @rifelpet in #16165
Automated cherry pick of #16167: Ignore HPA status when applying addons by @rifelpet in #16169
Automated cherry pick of #16168: chore: Bump go to 1.21.5 by @justinsb in #16170
Release 1.28.2 by @justinsb in #16182

Full Changelog: v1.28.1...v1.28.2