DM-32986: fix option handling in butler CLI presets files

[n8pease]

accept option names in the preset file,
map them to argument names before applying
them to the click.context.default_map.

also fail if an option is named in the
preset file that does not have a matching
parameter in the current command's options
or arguments.

Checklist

• ran Jenkins
• added a release note for user-visible changes to doc/changes

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Codecov Report

Merging #619 (4725cba) into main (d48bc30) will increase coverage by 0.02%.
The diff coverage is 100.00%.

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python/lsst/daf/butler/cli/utils.py	92.83% <100.00%> (+0.98%)	⬆️
tests/test_cliCmdConfigDump.py	97.32% <100.00%> (+0.89%)	⬆️

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[timj]

There should really be a test that the --something-something options work (with or without the leading --) to ensure that people don't have to write something_something.

[n8pease]

There should really be a test that the --something-something options work (with or without the leading --) to ensure that people don't have to write something_something.

I didn't think it was needed, since the name change is based on lookups not transforming the inputs. But it's easy enough to add so I put one in.

[timj]

Looks good to me.