When autorun is disabled, resuming a session shouldn't mark cells as stale

[akshayka]

Describe the bug

When autorun is disabled, resuming a session incorrectly marks all cells as stale. This requires the user to re-run the notebook, defeating the purpose of resumable sessions.

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Environment

{
  "marimo": "0.3.8",
  "OS": "Linux",
  "OS Version": "6.5.0-26-generic",
  "Processor": "x86_64",
  "Python Version": "3.10.12",
  "Binaries": {
    "Browser": "123.0.6312.86",
    "Node": "v18.13.0"
  },
  "Requirements": {
    "click": "8.1.3",
    "importlib-resources": "6.1.0",
    "jedi": "0.19.0",
    "markdown": "3.4.4",
    "pymdown-extensions": "10.3",
    "pygments": "2.16.1",
    "tomlkit": "0.12.0",
    "uvicorn": "0.24.0.post1",
    "starlette": "0.27.0",
    "websocket": "missing",
    "typing-extensions": "4.8.0",
    "black": "23.3.0"
  }

Code to reproduce

Disable autorun on startup, run a notebook, refresh.