dev: rm devnet folders on destroy / change default configs for node-upgrade

[marcello33]

Description

This PR lets the --destroy command remove the local devnet folder.
Also, it changes the config and env vars to use the stable commit hashed for the polygon stack with regards to node-upgrade.

Changes

• Bugfix (non-breaking change that solves an issue)
• New feature (non-breaking change that adds functionality)
• Breaking change (change that is not backwards-compatible and/or changes current functionality)
• New test case for remote devnet

Checklist

• I have added at least 2 reviewer or the whole pos-v1 team
• I have added sufficient documentation in code
• I will be resolving comments - if any - by pushing each fix in a separate commit and linking the commit hash in the comment reply

Testing

• I have tested this code manually on local environment
• I have tested this code manually on remote devnet using express-cli
• I have tested this code manually on mumbai