fix: don't call onConnect automatically (nodejs#3407)

In some edge cases this causes issues. Leave it to the user to
handle if necessary.

lib/handler/decorator-handler.js

@@ -1,11 +1,9 @@
 'use strict'
 
 const assert = require('node:assert')
-const noop = () => {}
 
 module.exports = class DecoratorHandler {
   #handler
-  #onConnectCalled = false
   #onCompleteCalled = false
   #onErrorCalled = false
 
@@ -17,16 +15,10 @@ module.exports = class DecoratorHandler {
   }
 
   onConnect (...args) {
-    this.#onConnectCalled = true
     return this.#handler.onConnect?.(...args)
   }
 
   onError (...args) {
-    if (!this.#onConnectCalled) {
-      this.#onConnectCalled = true
-      this.#handler.onConnect?.(noop)
-    }
-
     this.#onErrorCalled = true
     return this.#handler.onError?.(...args)
   }