Rework query parameter list expansion

[dstepanov]

This PR changes how parameters list expansion works, previous implementation only allowed IN (?) to IN(?,?,?) expansion, but SQL allows the use of ANY (?,?) and also SELECT (?,?,?) etc. depends on the database.
New implementation removes compile-time detection for IN ( and expands (?) into (?,?,?) during runtime for collections and arrays in the same way as Hibernate native query does it.

• (?) expands to (null) if a collection or an array is empty or null
• (?) remains the same for 1 item collection or array
• (?) expands to (?, ?... N) for N size collection or array

[graemerocher]

Nice work