fix: SelectAll State in DataGrid

[iguanaware]

🐛 Bug Report

BTW: In the Demo Site toggling between settings can also reproduce it.

After removing rows from datagrid the select all state remains unaffected.

Before Removing content from the collection

After Removing content

💻 Repro or Code Sample

The only way we were able to get it to update was for force calling the setter

<FluentDataGrid TGridItem="CollectionWrapper" Items="@FilteredItems" Pagination="@pagination">
    <SelectColumn @ref="selectColumn" TGridItem="CollectionWrapper" SelectMode="DataGridSelectMode.Multiple" @bind-SelectedItems="@SelectedItems" />

        private async Task DeleteCollectionsAsync(MouseEventArgs mouseEventArgs)
        {
            var itemstodelete = this.SelectedItems
                .Select(x => x.designCollectionDTO.DesignCollectionUUID)
                .ToArray();

            await this.CollectionService.RemoveDesignCollectionsAsync(itemstodelete, CancellationToken.None);

       
            this.selectColumn.SelectedItems = [];
        }

this.selectColumn.SelectedItems is not recommend BL0005 Component Parameter outside of the component

public class SelectColumn<TGridItem> : ColumnBase<TGridItem>
...
    /// <summary>
    /// Gets or sets the list of selected items.
    /// </summary>
    [Parameter]
    public IEnumerable<TGridItem> SelectedItems
    {
        get => _selectedItems;
        set
        {
            if (_selectedItems != value)
            {
                _selectedItems.Clear();
                _selectedItems.AddRange(value);
            }
        }
    }

Note: items and FilteredItems are update in the background followed by an InvokeAsync(StateHasChanged)

🤔 Expected Behavior

Provide a manual way to reset/rebuild the Selected Item state.

🌍 Your Environment

		<PackageReference Include="Microsoft.FluentUI.AspNetCore.Components" Version="4.7.2" />
		<PackageReference Include="Microsoft.FluentUI.AspNetCore.Components.Icons" Version="4.7.0" />