[WIP] Freebsd xattr

[tsuckow]

This is a work in progress PR for supporting FreeBSD extended attributes. I have not fully tested this yet but I did get it to build with some changes to CMAKE ( and the OS sources :-/ ) that are not in this PR because CMAKE doesn't want to detect sys/extattr.h

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