Fix #19073: tremolo beam thickness consistent with notehead size

[miiizen]

Resolves: #19073

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[oktophonie]

Can we extend this fix to solve the scaling problem on resized staves too?

It looks like the stem lengths on the upper stave (just a normal 'Small stave' here) are correct but the tremolo thickness/spacing is not.