Fix #315599 - MuseScore 3.6 crashes when rearranging instrument positions and changing Ordering

[njvdberg]

Resolves: https://musescore.org/en/node/315599

Add the customized score order always to the filter if the new order is a customized order.
Also the never used method ScoreOrderListModel::setCustomizedOrder() removed.

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