Update tooling versions for actions

[rajsite]

Updates the tooling dependencies for VireoSDK such as:

• Node, Python, and Visual Studio versions (the Build.md was updated to reflect that change)
• GitHub Action Operating Systems and Action versions

Notably this does not change:

• Emscripten toolchain versions
• JavaScript build dependency versions
  • Note that the npm lock file is a mechanical change to their latest format. I did a manual scan to verify that the effective package versions did not change.
• Does not validate the xcode project / migrate to modern versions

Intention is to keep the pipeline healthy while avoiding any other changes at least for this PR.

[rajsite]

FYI @spathiwa admin overriding to bypass owners as only build tooling updated to versions supported on CI and all tests passing.