Trilogy instrumentation should make root ping spans opt-in

[plantfansam]

Trilogy can generate quite a lot of ping spans that have no parent (or child). AFAICT these spans come from background workers that are booting up, and don't add a ton of value. IMO we should default to not tracing ping if it doesn't have a parent and allow a config option to opt in.

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