Add conditional include for <cuda/std/tuple> to support CUDA 12.4+

[peters]

Fixes #3752

Adds a preprocessor check to conditionally include <cuda/std/tuple> only for CUDA versions 12.4 and above. This ensures backward compatibility with older legacy CUDA versions.

Related to pull request #3744

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