Slow the default lease retry and renew rate for machine controller

Prevent machine controllers from writing in etcd at idle too often
by setting 120s lease, 20s retry and 110s deadline on all renewals.
Higher values cause tests to flake.
BZ 1858403

cmd/manager/main.go

@@ -34,6 +34,13 @@ import (
 	"sigs.k8s.io/controller-runtime/pkg/manager"
 )
 
+// The default durations for the leader electrion operations.
+var (
+	leaseDuration = 120 * time.Second
+	renewDealine  = 110 * time.Second
+	retryPeriod   = 20 * time.Second
+)
+
 func main() {
 	printVersion := flag.Bool(
 		"version",
@@ -61,7 +68,7 @@ func main() {
 
 	leaderElectLeaseDuration := flag.Duration(
 		"leader-elect-lease-duration",
-		90*time.Second,
+		leaseDuration,
 		"The duration that non-leader candidates will wait after observing a leadership renewal until attempting to acquire leadership of a led but unrenewed leader slot. This is effectively the maximum duration that a leader can be stopped before it is replaced by another candidate. This is only applicable if leader election is enabled.",
 	)
 
@@ -90,6 +97,9 @@ func main() {
 		SyncPeriod:              &syncPeriod,
 		// Disable metrics serving
 		MetricsBindAddress: "0",
+		// Slow the default retry and renew election rate to reduce etcd writes at idle: BZ 1858400
+		RetryPeriod:   &retryPeriod,
+		RenewDeadline: &renewDealine,
 	}
 
 	if *watchNamespace != "" {