Backport PR #58658 on branch 2.2.x (CI/TST: Don't xfail test_api_read_sql_duplicate_columns for pyarrow=16 and sqlite)

Backport PR #58658 on branch 2.2.x (CI/TST: Don't xfail test_api_read_sql_duplicate_columns for pyarrow=16 and sqlite) #3371