Ensure that mock transport does not swallow req (elastic#108656)

Currently it is possible for the MockTransportService distrupt behavior
to swallow requests if either the connection is already closed (in which
case response pruning has already occurred) or if the behavior is added
after the clear callback has been triggered.

test/framework/src/main/java/org/elasticsearch/test/transport/MockTransportService.java

@@ -29,8 +29,10 @@
 import org.elasticsearch.common.util.MockPageCacheRecycler;
 import org.elasticsearch.common.util.concurrent.AbstractRunnable;
 import org.elasticsearch.common.util.concurrent.RunOnce;
+import org.elasticsearch.core.AbstractRefCounted;
 import org.elasticsearch.core.IOUtils;
 import org.elasticsearch.core.Nullable;
+import org.elasticsearch.core.RefCounted;
 import org.elasticsearch.core.Strings;
 import org.elasticsearch.core.TimeValue;
 import org.elasticsearch.core.UpdateForV9;
@@ -48,6 +50,7 @@
 import org.elasticsearch.transport.ClusterConnectionManager;
 import org.elasticsearch.transport.ConnectTransportException;
 import org.elasticsearch.transport.ConnectionProfile;
+import org.elasticsearch.transport.NodeNotConnectedException;
 import org.elasticsearch.transport.RequestHandlerRegistry;
 import org.elasticsearch.transport.TcpTransport;
 import org.elasticsearch.transport.Transport;
@@ -428,7 +431,9 @@ public void addUnresponsiveRule(TransportAddress transportAddress) {
         );
 
         transport().addSendBehavior(transportAddress, new StubbableTransport.SendRequestBehavior() {
+
             private final Set<Transport.Connection> toClose = ConcurrentHashMap.newKeySet();
+            private final RefCounted refs = AbstractRefCounted.of(this::closeConnections);
 
             @Override
             public void sendRequest(
@@ -437,19 +442,32 @@ public void sendRequest(
                 String action,
                 TransportRequest request,
                 TransportRequestOptions options
-            ) {
-                // don't send anything, the receiving node is unresponsive
-                toClose.add(connection);
+            ) throws IOException {
+                if (connection.isClosed()) {
+                    throw new NodeNotConnectedException(connection.getNode(), "connection already closed");
+                } else if (refs.tryIncRef()) {
+                    // don't send anything, the receiving node is unresponsive
+                    toClose.add(connection);
+                    refs.decRef();
+                } else {
+                    connection.sendRequest(requestId, action, request, options);
+                }
             }
 
             @Override
             public void clearCallback() {
+                // close to simulate that tcp-ip eventually times out and closes connection (necessary to ensure transport eventually
+                // responds).
+                refs.decRef();
+            }
+
+            private void closeConnections() {
                 // close to simulate that tcp-ip eventually times out and closes connection (necessary to ensure transport eventually
                 // responds).
                 try {
                     IOUtils.close(toClose);
                 } catch (IOException e) {
-                    throw new RuntimeException(e);
+                    throw new AssertionError(e);
                 }
             }
         });