use scale-in to manually remove a TiFlash node

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LGTM

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/merge

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In response to a cherrypick label: new pull request created: #9982.

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In response to a cherrypick label: new pull request created: #9983.

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In response to a cherrypick label: new pull request created: #9984.

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In response to a cherrypick label: new pull request created: #9985.