Migrate MacOs wheel binary builds to ephemeral M1 runners

[malfet]

Surprisingly there are no speed difference between running the cross-compilation on macos12-xl (x86_64 12 core machine) and macos-13-xlarge (m1 6 core machine)

Most of the changes are on the https://github.com/pytorch/builder side:

• pytorch/builder@50a6e91 skips installing mkl on M1 machines
• pytorch/builder@bbb29b0 same for llvm-9
• pytorch/builder@8bcc83d bumps minimal numpy version to 1.19 (as 1.17 is not available for m1)
• pytorch/builder@cc4f1f9 skips building tests/distributed for M1

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