upgrade PT to 1.12

[lxning]

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Fixes #(issue)
#1762

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• mac_install.log
• mac_regression_test.log
• linux-cpu_install.log
• linux-cpu_regression_test.log
• win_cu116.log
• win_cu113.log
• win-cpu.log
• linux_cu102.log
• linux_cu113.log
• linux_cu116.log
• linux_gpu_regression_test.txt

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[chauhang]

Please see comments inline. Further check what changes are needed for torch_cu102_windows.txt

[lxning]

Please see comments inline. Further check what changes are needed for torch_cu102_windows.txt

PT1.12 does not support cu102 on windows

[mreso]

LGTM

[chauhang]

@lxning Please check the Codebuild errors, failing for all the cases