[skip ci] rewhere argument on #merge deprecated

[deepakmahakale]

Motivation / Background

The changelog entry and release notes entries are missing for - #45498

Detail

Add a changelog entry for the deprecation
Add release notes entry for the deprecation

Additional information

Checklist

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