[tune] [serve] Don't use daemon threads

[edoakes]

Describe your feature request

Use normal threads and join them on shutdown instead of using daemon threads and letting the OS terminate them to ensure everything is cleaned up properly on exit.

cc @richardliaw @simon-mo

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