[v23.1.x] kafka/client: Configuration for consume min and max bytes

[vbotbuildovich]

Backport #15438 to branch v23.1.x. Note that this issue was created as a placeholder, since the original PR's commit(s) could not be automatically cherry-picked.
Here are the commands to execute:

git checkout v23.1.x
git checkout -b vbotbuildovich/backport-15438-v23.1.x-744
git cherry-pick -x 6f25f76c3fa1ae3f3d03d67a4f80ba2a8d0be5ae f05ced8dfc89ebcf7f5df3d22870d0e0411dc478 1eb847fac4c24165262c54a45639189e530f2423

git push origin vbotbuildovich/backport-15438-v23.1.x-744
gh pr create \
  --title "[v23.1.x] kafka/client: Configuration for consume min and max bytes" \
  --base "v23.1.x" \
  --label "kind/backport" \
  --head "vbotbuildovich/backport-15438-v23.1.x-744" \
  --draft \
  --repo "redpanda-data/redpanda" \
  --reviewer "" \
  --milestone "v23.1.x-next" \
  --body "Backport of PR https://github.com/redpanda-data/redpanda/pull/15438 "

[piyushredpanda]

Merged