Update Template READMEs and links

[brookslybrand]

Starting to update our templates just a bit. This is the first step:

• Remove unnecessary mention of Vite -- people trying out Remix for the first time don't need to know about the compiler, this made more sense
• Update links from old tutorials to the current ones

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