Add friendly error for npm bug

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This PR contains:

• bugfix
• feature
• refactor
• documentation
• other

Are tests included?

• yes (bugfixes and features will not be merged without tests)
• no

Breaking Changes?

• yes (breaking changes will not be merged unless absolutely necessary)
• no

List any relevant issue numbers:

• Urgent Help - Unable to view my React Project when I perform npm run dev vitejs/vite#15108
• Cross platform build fails vitejs/vite#15120

Description

npm has a bug related to optional dependencies (npm/cli#4828).
I reproduced this bug with npm@10.1.0, npm@9.8.1, npm@8.19.4.

This PR adds a message about that when the optional dependency was not found.

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Codecov Report

Attention: 2 lines in your changes are missing coverage. Please review.

Comparison is base (2e94641) 98.87% compared to head (074547f) 98.86%.

❗ Current head 074547f differs from pull request most recent head a98219f. Consider uploading reports for the commit a98219f to get more accurate results

Files	Patch %	Lines
native.js	80.00%	2 Missing ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

@@            Coverage Diff             @@
##           master    #5267      +/-   ##
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- Coverage   98.87%   98.86%   -0.02%     
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  Files         232      232              
  Lines        8946     8950       +4     
  Branches     2334     2334              
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+ Hits         8845     8848       +3     
- Misses         42       43       +1     
  Partials       59       59              

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This PR has been released as part of rollup@4.6.0. You can test it via npm install rollup.