Fix Mocha compatibility

RSpec Mocks happened to load its configuration, use the default syntax
and define `any_instance` on `Class` before Mocha had a chance to in
case `rspec/rails` was required in `spec/spec_helper.rb`.

fixes #2252

lib/rspec/rails/matchers/have_enqueued_mail.rb

@@ -1,4 +1,4 @@
-require "rspec/mocks"
+require "rspec/mocks/argument_matchers"
 require "rspec/rails/matchers/active_job"
 
 module RSpec
@@ -11,7 +11,7 @@ module Matchers
       class HaveEnqueuedMail < ActiveJob::HaveEnqueuedJob
         MAILER_JOB_METHOD = 'deliver_now'.freeze
 
-        include RSpec::Mocks::ExampleMethods
+        include RSpec::Mocks::ArgumentMatchers
 
         def initialize(mailer_class, method_name)
           super(nil)