auth: don't use infinite timeout in default_role_row_satisfies query

A long long time ago there was an issue about removing infinite timeouts
from distributed queries: #3603. There was also a fix:
620e950. But apparently some queries
escaped the fix, like the one in `default_role_row_satisfies`.

With the right conditions and timing this query may cause a node to hang
indefinitely on shutdown. A node tries to perform this query after it
starts. If we kill another node which is required to serve this query
right before that moment, the query will hang; when we try to shutdown
the querying node, it will wait for the query to finish (it's a
background task in auth service), which it never does due to infinite
timeout.

Use the same timeout configuration as other queries in this module do.

Fixes #13545.

Closes #14134

auth/roles-metadata.cc

@@ -55,6 +55,7 @@ future<bool> default_role_row_satisfies(
         return qp.execute_internal(
                 query,
                 db::consistency_level::ONE,
+                internal_distributed_query_state(),
                 {meta::DEFAULT_SUPERUSER_NAME},
                 cql3::query_processor::cache_internal::yes).then([&qp, &p](::shared_ptr<cql3::untyped_result_set> results) {
             if (results->empty()) {