Refactor python optional dependencies

[LecrisUT]

• Renamed optional dependencies to be closer to scikit-build. Aliases are kept for compatibility
• Expanded optional dependencies to separate convergence and benchmark testing. Added development set with pre-commit
• Fixed pytest option to not depend on pytest-benchmark

[codecov-commenter]

Codecov Report

Patch and project coverage have no change.

Comparison is base (06f1799) 85.69% compared to head (7b5f6ff) 85.69%.

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Flag	Coverage Δ
c_api	73.70% <ø> (ø)
fortran_api	37.37% <ø> (ø)
python_api	82.84% <ø> (ø)

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