chore(deps): Update otel meter provider 0.9.0 -> 0.10.0 and 0.31.0 -> 0.32.0

[javorszky]

the otel monorepo changed the API signatures, so a regular renovate bot update was not enough.

This PR updates the dependencies to the latest available at the time of the PR with the necessary modifications to the consuming code.

This also means that other code that uses this will need to deal with the returned shutdown function as the signature of the new otelmeter function changed

[javorszky]

I have also changed / introduced something called "temporality". Previously it was cumulative, as the default, now it's delta.

From the otel meter code (https://github.com/open-telemetry/opentelemetry-go/blob/main/sdk/metric/metricdata/temporality.go):

// Temporality defines the window that an aggregation was calculated over.
type Temporality uint8

const (
	// undefinedTemporality represents an unset Temporality.
	//nolint:deadcode,unused,varcheck
	undefinedTemporality Temporality = iota

	// CumulativeTemporality defines a measurement interval that continues to
	// expand forward in time from a starting point. New measurements are
	// added to all previous measurements since a start time.
	CumulativeTemporality

	// DeltaTemporality defines a measurement interval that resets each cycle.
	// Measurements from one cycle are recorded independently, measurements
	// from other cycles do not affect them.
	DeltaTemporality
)

[rnpridgeon]

This will be an ongoing issue so long as atmo/e2core and scn continues to use otel directly while sat uses go-kit. We should make it a pretty high priority to get e2core and scn updated with go-kit and replace any direct usage of otel (and fix our circular dependencies of course)

[javorszky]

Yep, the next step is to integrate this with the others