[bugfix] Only mark status orphaned on 410 Gone

[tsmethurst]

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Fix small mistake introduced in previous PR where statuses were marked as orphans if a call to their parent returned 404. Many implementations use 404 as a spicy 403 for followers-only statuses, so we were orphaning statuses unnecessarily.

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