"support valid error early stopping"

[zpppy]

Proposed changes

#614 error reason：cause early_stopping_eval_diff is too small， tree‘s depth is too small.
optimization：
1）early_stopping_eval_diff_scale instead of early_stopping_eval_diff
2）termination condition:

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[jeongyoonlee]

LGTM. Thanks for the contribution!