sync: cleanup and implement fsync if files are given

[tertsdiepraam]

Changes:

• The files are PathBuf now, allowing invalid UTF-8
• We've got fsync now if files are given but neither --data or --file-system is passed.
• We no longer check the paths up front, but while opening the paths.
• Our functions are no longer marked unsafe, because they aren't :)
• --data and --file-system are hidden when they are not supported
• --data and --file-system trigger an error when they are used, but not supported
• Some functions were (I think) available on more platforms that what we were using, so I tried to remove from cfg gates.

I can't be bothered with also fixing Windows right now :)

I tried to use nix, but it was sadly missing some Android stuff, which I've made a PR for: nix-rust/nix#2296.

[tertsdiepraam]

Meh, I'll fix Mac soon

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GNU testsuite comparison:

GNU test failed: tests/misc/sync. tests/misc/sync is passing on 'main'. Maybe you have to rebase?