Remove and log warning before loading webhooks

[prithvitewatia]

Closes #2528.
This PR removes externally added webhooks as extensions and logs a warning that passing webhook class name is no longer required and may lead to compatibility issues in future.

Supersedes #2550

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[tomakehurst]

Thanks!