fix py3-anyio dependency. Adding setuptools-scm deps properly fix the version issue

[smuzaffar]

Fixes #7365
using setuptools-scm properly set the anyio version.

[smuzaffar]

please test

[cmsbuild]

A new Pull Request was created by @smuzaffar (Malik Shahzad Muzaffar) for branch IB/CMSSW_12_1_X/master.

@cmsbuild, @smuzaffar, @iarspider, @ddaina can you please review it and eventually sign? Thanks.
@perrotta, @dpiparo, @qliphy you are the release manager for this.
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[cmsbuild]

+1

Summary: https://cmssdt.cern.ch/SDT/jenkins-artifacts/pull-request-integration/PR-08b0e3/19444/summary.html
COMMIT: 5c67d38
CMSSW: CMSSW_12_1_X_2021-10-06-1100/slc7_amd64_gcc900
User test area: For local testing, you can use /cvmfs/cms-ci.cern.ch/week1/cms-sw/cmsdist/7366/19444/install.sh to create a dev area with all the needed externals and cmssw changes.

Comparison Summary

Summary:

• No significant changes to the logs found
• Reco comparison results: 4 differences found in the comparisons
• DQMHistoTests: Total files compared: 40
• DQMHistoTests: Total histograms compared: 3219394
• DQMHistoTests: Total failures: 1
• DQMHistoTests: Total nulls: 0
• DQMHistoTests: Total successes: 3219371
• DQMHistoTests: Total skipped: 22
• DQMHistoTests: Total Missing objects: 0
• DQMHistoSizes: Histogram memory added: 0.0 KiB( 39 files compared)
• Checked 169 log files, 37 edm output root files, 40 DQM output files
• TriggerResults: no differences found

[smuzaffar]

+externals
we will merge it once 12.1.0.pre4 is released

[cmsbuild]

This pull request is fully signed and it will be integrated in one of the next IB/CMSSW_12_1_X/master IBs (tests are also fine). This pull request will now be reviewed by the release team before it's merged. @perrotta, @dpiparo, @qliphy (and backports should be raised in the release meeting by the corresponding L2)