Set maxPayload on ws server for each p2p ws server

[air1one]

The maxPayload option on ws server allows to specify a max payload size on the ws server listener : https://github.com/websockets/ws/blob/da42ea17451f11eed54adb54d3beeedbb1c2aa70/doc/ws.md

Currently, our hapi-nes does not allow to set this option, it would be when instantiating the ws server see packages/core-p2p/src/hapi-nes/listener.ts.

So two things :

• allow to set the maxPayload option on the ws server (in hapi-nes)
• when registering hapi-nes plugin on every p2p server (peer, blocks, and transactions), set the following values : 100KB for peer server, 20MB for blocks server, 10MB for transactions server