Fix orphaned lsp processes

[bpringe]

What has Changed?

• Update clojure-lsp to version 2021.01.12-02.18.26, which includes a fix for orphaned processes. The server now checks, periodically, if the parent process (VS Code) is still alive, and if not, it exits gracefully.
• Do not add the disposable returned from starting the language client to the extension context subscriptions, because it needs to be stopped asynchronously in the deactivate function

Fixes #906

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