Cherry pick #55309 to 23.3: Fix bug with inability to drop detached partition in replicated merge tree on top of S3 without zero copy

[robot-ch-test-poll3]

Original pull-request #55309

This pull-request is a first step of an automated backporting.
It contains changes like after calling a local command git cherry-pick.
If you intend to continue backporting this changes, then resolve all conflicts if any.
Otherwise, if you do not want to backport them, then just close this pull-request.

The check results does not matter at this step - you can safely ignore them.

Note

This pull-request will be merged automatically as it reaches the mergeable state, do not merge it manually.

If the PR was closed and then reopened

If it stuck, check #55309 for pr-backports-created and delete it if necessary. Manually merging will do nothing, since pr-backports-created prevents the original PR #55309 from being processed.

If you want to recreate the PR: delete the pr-cherrypick label and delete this branch.
You may also need to delete the pr-backports-created label from the original PR.

[robot-clickhouse-ci-1]

Dear @alesapin, @CheSema, the PR is not updated for 1d0h58m43s. Please, either resolve the conflicts, or close it to finish the backport process of #55309

[robot-ch-test-poll2]

Dear @alesapin, @CheSema, the PR is not updated for 1d0h0m44s. Please, either resolve the conflicts, or close it to finish the backport process of #55309

[robot-ch-test-poll1]

Dear @alesapin, @CheSema, the PR is not updated for 1d0h0m55s. Please, either resolve the conflicts, or close it to finish the backport process of #55309