Fix filtered subscription interval and extra checkpoint when transitioning to live

[hayley-jean]

Removed: Extra checkpoint when subscription to $all goes live.
Fixed: Checkpoints of filtered $all subscription not always send on correct interval.

This cherry-picks some fixes from PRs:

• Added CaughtUp control message for subscriptions #3899
• Send checkpoints on correct interval after catching-up (DB-348) #3941

This fixes an issue in subscriptions where the subscription was sending an extra checkpoint when transitioning to live. This could cause an event to be missed if this checkpoint is then used as the position to subscribe from.

[linear]

DB-456 Send correct checkpoint when transitioning to live in 22.10

This is already fixed in master as part of the work that added the 'transitioned to live' message

But in 22.10 we still send an incorrect checkpoint when grpc catchup subscriptions (probably: stream, all, allfiltered) transition to live, which if used will cause an event to be missed

Probably fix in 21 as well if the same fix would work there (likely)

[github-actions]

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